Perspective
Something we all aspire to maintain in the midst of all manner of crises. Last Thursday we discussed that, although we cannot control the stressors that surround us, we can choose how we move through a difficult time. Slowing down and taking time to breathe helps a person remember what their priorities and desires are: a necessity when we feel we are spinning out of control in a crisis. If we yield to the pressure and speed ourselves up to match our surroundings, we forget what our true motivations are.
The practice of meditation was likened to practising first aid. We practise and practise in a neutral setting so that it becomes the first response when we are in trouble.
The importance of breathing was discussed with reference to self-defense. In self-defense classes students are taught to say "NO" loudly to their attacker, partially to draw attention to themselves and scare off the individual, but also because saying no forces the person to exhale, requiring them, then, to inhale. This inhalation is important because you can't think without getting oxygen to your brain.
So - the practice of meditation teaches us to breathe, and helps us to slow down, so that we can fully appreciate our situation and discern what is needed to help us navigate through difficult times. We can't change the events but we can choose how we cope with them.